I'm going to just post her obit and a status from a cousin that is very nicely put and captures my Gran to a tee! :) She was a one of a kind woman and she will be greatly missed. "Glad to know someone that was always kind and showed love and appreciation to everyone they met. And told me that if i didn't believe in God that they would pray for plagues to come down and show me He is real. Fantastic woman" ~ JC Thompson This quote captures her especially the first part because I believe she truly loved everyone she met and showed no judgment or hated. She took everyone as they were and loved them all the same. I pray that I can take on that quality and show love to everyone I meet. Attached is her obit. http://www.chattanoogan.com/2012/5/30/227260/Paulhamus-Stella-Beatrice.aspx